#Quote “Fighting Temptation…”

“Desire is an affectively charged motivation toward a certain object, person, or activity that is associated with pleasure or relief from displeasure. Desires vary in strength and duration. A desire becomes a temptation, entering the area of self-control, if the behavior resulting from the desire conflicts with an individual’s values or other self-regulatory goals.

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Self-control dilemmas occur when long-term goals and values clash with short-term temptations. The stronger and more available the temptation is, the harsher the devaluation will be!
Craving for an addictive desire persists because individuals develop mental images of the coveted substance that are instantly pleasurable, but which also increase their awareness of deficit!

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Turning 25 : What have I learned so far !

I learned to appreciate the little I have because I’m not sure if I will have it again.
I learned to take every possible chance out there because that could be the only and last time for me.
I learned not to be scared, because the greatest things happen when you dare.
I learned to be happy because happiness is the greatest feeling one can ever feel (by the way it’s not love because when someone starts to talk about love they found  themselves eventually talking about happiness)
I learned to do whatever and all I want because that makes me feel like I’m on the top of the world, makes me feel unstoppable, makes me feel strong, independent, powerful, free, on fire, makes me feel beautiful inside and outside!! Priceless irreplacable feelings you get when you know that you’re taking control of your own life and none is making you as his puppet!
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Would They ?!?

If one day, I jump off the edge

and lose all of my faith

Would they matter

would they care

would they know that I’m not there

and defenitly not even here

would they feel the impact of my fear

and see the wounds that I can’t heal

would they ask where the hell I’m gone

and where would I be if I’m done

would they look out for my face

and search around for my trace

would they matter

would they care.

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Feeling FREE

Release your inhibitions

Feel the rain on your skin

No one else can feel it for you

Only you can let it in

No one else, no one else

Can speak the words on your lips

Drench yourself in words unspoken

Live your life with arms wide open

Today is where your book begins

The rest is still unwritten

I climb the walls, yeah

I can see the edge but I can’t take the fall, no

I memorized the number

So why can’t I make the call

I’ll spread my wings

And I’ll learn how to fly

Though it’s not easy

To tell you goodbye

I gotta take a risk, take a chance make a change

And break away…

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