“Desire is an affectively charged motivation toward a certain object, person, or activity that is associated with pleasure or relief from displeasure. Desires vary in strength and duration. A desire becomes a temptation, entering the area of self-control, if the behavior resulting from the desire conflicts with an individual’s values or other self-regulatory goals.
Self-control dilemmas occur when long-term goals and values clash with short-term temptations. The stronger and more available the temptation is, the harsher the devaluation will be!
Craving for an addictive desire persists because individuals develop mental images of the coveted substance that are instantly pleasurable, but which also increase their awareness of deficit!
to appreciate the little I have because I’m not sure if I will have it again.
I learned to take every possible chance out there because that could be the only and last time for me.
I learned not to be scared, because the greatest things happen when you dare.
I learned to be happy because happiness is the greatest feeling one can ever feel (by the way it’s not love because when someone starts to talk about love they found themselves eventually talking about happiness)
I learned to do whatever and all I want because that makes me feel like I’m on the top of the world, makes me feel unstoppable, makes me feel strong, independent, powerful, free, on fire, makes me feel beautiful inside and outside!! Priceless irreplacable feelings you get when you know that you’re taking control of your own life and none is making you as his puppet!
If one day, I jump off the edge
and lose all of my faith
Would they matter
would they care
would they know that I’m not there
and defenitly not even here
would they feel the impact of my fear
and see the wounds that I can’t heal
would they ask where the hell I’m gone
and where would I be if I’m done
would they look out for my face
and search around for my trace
would they matter
would they care.
Release your inhibitions
Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
Drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins
The rest is still unwritten
I climb the walls, yeah
I can see the edge but I can’t take the fall, no
I memorized the number
So why can’t I make the call
I’ll spread my wings
And I’ll learn how to fly
Though it’s not easy
To tell you goodbye
I gotta take a risk, take a chance make a change
And break away…